Staying Relevant: The Best American Hashtags 2014

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It was a frigid November evening, but my digital daughter, Amanda, and I were wrapped in a blanket of storytelling at New York City’s Symphony Space.

Hosted by Matthew Love of Selected Shorts, it was a night to celebrate “The Best American Short Stories 2014,” with selections by Pulitzer Prize Winning Author Jennifer Egan.  Egan offered insights into this edition’s common themes – despair, hope through the support of others, wild animals – along with her own list of prerequisites for inclusion, most notably an ability to engage the reader in surprise and current truths. I closed my eyes and escaped into worlds created by Lauren Groff and T.C. Boyle – and performed by actors Amy Ryan and Dylan Baker, respectively.

(Golden rule: You are never too old to be read a story.)

Matthew Love was all wit.  As part of his commentary, he riffed off of what other, more modern-day writing collections, might look like.  He postulated that in our short-take society we might want to see, “The Best American Paragraphs,”  “The Best American Sentences,” or even “The Best American Tweets” – adding that maybe they would be pamphlets instead of tomes.   I thought I could contribute another trilogy, “The Best American Hashtags,” “The Best American Emoji Sentences,” “The Best American Selfies.”  I bet they would sell (attention any agents out there wanting to get it on this, l’m #allears).

I was also #allears when Jennifer Egan talked about how in the last 20 years, technology has unapologetically and definitively transformed how our world looks and feels. Watch a film with a corded telephone, a phone booth or a typewriter and you know you are experiencing life sometime before 1994.  If you see a smartphone, or iPad, and tweets are flying across the screen, then welcome to the 21st century. And we are not going back – just speeding forward.

When it was time for intermission, I looked over at my daughter and we gave each other the big-eyed look of approval.  “So good…” she exhaled.  And, then she whipped out her iPhone and started tapping through Snapchat.  Huh?!

If you aren’t well versed in Snapchat, it is a photo messaging service, a quick and easy way to touch base with a friend with a photo or “snap.”   You can even record videos, add text and drawings and most recently, send money.  At its most appealing (and surreal to the uninitiated, aka us over 40-types), it is the safe sandbar, the Yoplait Lite; the diametric opposite of engaged, deep, involved conversation.  At its most concerning, Snapchat’s promise of self-destructing videos and images turned out to have a bunch of loop holes.  The takeaway…be careful what you “snap.”

So while I was still reveling in the reading, my daughter was trying to make the right funny face to snap to her friends.  I wish I could show you, but with Snapchat, the images are fleeting.  Gone in seconds.

The irony was thick.

images-6According to ten-year-old Manhattanite Hayden, one of my Digital Daughter Ambassadors (Digital Daughter Facebook page coming soon!), “I like Snapchat because it helps me stay in touch. Sometimes I feel like it’s a way of joking around. When I use Snapchat, I might purposely make myself look bad because I don’t care…it’s for fun!”
My friend told me that her teenage son is always Snapchatting with his friends.  When she asked him why he doesn’t seem to text anymore, he said, “With Snapchat, I don’t have to have a conversation.”

I get it…I do.  It’s like saying, “I’m thinking of you,” but with a personal photo; a “picture that is worth a 1000 words.” But with our teenagers who tend towards one-word answers to our explicit questions, will our communication turn into a “rolled-eye” Snapchat photo when we try to engage?  And, what’s next?  A heartbeat sent from our child’s AppleWatch, just to let us know that they are alive?

It’s all up for grabs, and it’s all relevant, but let’s keep the art and engagement of storytelling alive!

And now, here are my top contenders for “Best American Hashtags 2014” (in no particular order).  Would love to know yours…

#sayitlikeyoumeanit

#storytime

#ourdigitaldaughters

#confidenceisbeautiful

#empowerment

#smile

#liveinthenow

#love

#music

#usa

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